thank you!

Thanks for watching Flavia.

Greg Owens what do you mean

UniquelyAshante’s Corner thank you so much

Thanks for clarifying.

For your first question, in reference to bringing up this subject in your church so they can discuss it, I suggest talking one on one with your pastor. Tell him the same thing you told me about how you noticed many churches don’t discuss it and how young people are constantly influenced by their peers and the media, which says “sex sells.” Depending on how your pastor responds, you’ll have to make the decision of whether or not you should attend a different church.

Now for your second question, about bringing this up as a youth leader, there are many approaches to this and I can’t tell you verbatim what to say. You have to find the words to say. However, here are some key points to keep in mind:

1. Lead by example. You want to make sure that you’re showing the youth what modesty looks like in how you dress and carry yourself. Make sure when you’re talking to them, you’re not in flashy or revealing attire.

2. Emphasize how both men and women have the responsibility of not being stumbling blocks in one’s path to Christ. Tell them that by being cautious of how you present yourself it shows honor to God by helping your brethren (which is talked about a lot in the Bible).

3. Emphasize that it’s not the clothes that make a person, but how they carry themselves.

4. Explain that modesty isn’t about dressing”boring” (as many young people associate it with). It’s about being humble, not acting they’re “holier than thou,” not acting like they’re better than someone in the way they talk and dress.

I hope this helps to answer your question. If you need further assistance, please don’t hesitate to reach out again! God bless you and enjoy your weekend!

Yes

I’m sorry….I’m still confused. You’re saying you want advice on both? I just want to make sure I’m giving the right advice you’re asking for.

There are still many men that are aroused by tight clothing. Clothing continues to evolve over the years…but no matter what’s trending, it’s important to make sure the attention is not on our bodies. The attention should be on the heart and mind we carry! ? Thanks for tuning in!

Yes, men will be attracted either way. I talk about this a little bit in the first video of this series (it’s a three-part series). If you would like to, you can take a look at that video and the last video in this series.

Peter Smith Why Leggings are dangerous; https://youtu.be/_AKybkFNdlU

Glad you agree! It’s good that you’re making sure you’re completely covered. Thanks for tuning in! 🙂

Luke Gawz: ?

mem T that’s not true, Bible says otherwise..
Why Leggings are dangerous; https://youtu.be/_AKybkFNdlU

I agree @Luke Gause. We have to make sure we’re not a stumbling block in one’s path to Christ. Thanks for tuning in!

? There is a difference in HOW men are attracted. Sexually stimulated? Or simply seeing a women’s elegance and beauty. Don’t think just because he sinned because of your attire that you won’t be held accountable. It’s self centered to simply pawn it off as men’s problem.

I know right? I don’t why someone would wear something that short in the first place. That’s good that you do the bend test too….great minds think alike 🙂 Thanks for watching sis. Glad you enjoyed the video and I appreciate your ongoing support!

thats pagan practices.

You actually brought up a really good point that I didn’t consider when it came to the yoga pants! ? Thanks for mentioning that! ?

Amen. Yes, there are some very tight pants out there. I wear them per my view on Deutoronomy 22:5 , but many pants now look like leggings. I have to check the style to make sure it doesn’t show my shape.

Kisha Lray Why Leggings are dangerous; https://youtu.be/_AKybkFNdlU